That's what my son Daniel stated to me last week. He went on to prove it in our conversation since as soon as I tried to say now was now it was no longer so!! It's true in a way, isn't it? Now is so very fleeting. Yesterdays, on the other hand, keep piling up before our eyes. Regrets, memories, good and bad, stay with us. But the present flies by into the past in the blink on an eye.
James 4:14b captures the essence: "What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes."
Yet it is not meaningless, no, not at all! We have the challenge from scripture to make the most of every opportunity given to us to do good. To live in the center of God's will is the best place to be. There we can have peace and the satisfaction of knowing that, although our lives are like sand through an hourglass, each moment is redeemed as we commit our way to Him with the heart of Mary: "I am the Lord's servant, may it be to me as You have spoken."
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
Monday, February 27, 2012
Greatest Gift
From Ladies' Christmas Tea 2011:
What is the greatest Christmas present you’ve ever received? I don’t have anything that amazing, but I do remember a gift Paul gave me our first Christmas together after we were married. I’d always wanted to learn to play the piano and a friend had given me some lessons my senior year of college. But then Paul and I got together and I got a bit distracted and the lessons fell by the wayside! Paul surprised me with a beautiful keyboard with all the bells and whistles. It had the different settings like grand piano, clarinet. and even disco! It was a great blessing.
As I’ve reflected on what makes for a great gift, I think it’s the ones that express love, that meet a need or desire, as well as those homemade gifts that have something of the giver in them, that mean the most. I’d like to propose to you that God gave us the greatest gift that first Christmas, one that truly has something of the giver in it, perfectly expresses His love, and fulfills our deepest needs and desires.
Let me try to explain: First some Scriptural background: Gen. 1:1-2 “In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth. The earth was without form and void, and darkness was over the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God was hovering over the face of the waters. And God said, “Let there be light, and there was light.” And on the passage goes, with God creating everything by His Word. Each day heralded another command that His creation be designed. The mountains, and seas, the animals, and flowers - all the beauty we see around us God spoke into being! And, fortunately for us, on the sixth day, He made mankind. He said, “let us make man in our own image, after our likeness. So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him, male and female he created them.”(Gen.1:26-27) (Now this was long before the first Christmas, but it sounds very similar to passages in the gospel of John and the book of Colossians: (John 1:1-4) “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. ..All things were made through him, .. In him was life, and the life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it. (v.14) And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen his glory, glory of the only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth.” (Col 1:15-19) “He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation. For by him all things were made, in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, --all things were created through him and for him. For in him all the fullness of God was pleased to dwell.”
The Word that existed in eternity past, God Himself who created all things, came wrapped up in a baby that first Christmas! The term ‘the Word’ conveys the notion of divine self-expression or speech. I would say this gift of Jesus truly had something of the Giver in it!!! God’s very essence indeed! God also expresses His perfect love and meets our greatest need in this gift. Why did He God give us Jesus? John 3:16 explains: “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.” Our greatest need is not material (as pressing as these can be), but spiritual. You see, soon after God had finished his amazing creation, the perfect harmony Adam and Eve enjoyed with Him and each other was destroyed by sin. Ever since the fall in the garden, mankind has been exiled from God, because the holy God cannot dwell in the presence of sin. This disease of the soul has infected all humanity. Our sins, whether many or few, whether acknowledged or denied, have separated us from God and effect all our relationships. I must admit I can easily go from being good to being more like the grinch in the course of a day. Selfishness and pride rear their ugly heads.
Paul sent me these true , humorous accounts of the Christmas spirit gone bad: ‘ Although most people don't know what to do with their tree once the celebration is over, a woman in Victoria, British Columbia, had an idea. She was arrested for beating a man with her Christmas tree. The incident was sparked when the man grumbled that the load of gifts in his arms was heavier than the tree she was carrying.’ and another one: ‘When her Jensen Beach, Florida, apartment complex held a Christmas-lights competition, Donna Simmons-Groover was a winner…briefly. One of her neighbors, incensed at losing the contest, ripped down part of Donna's winning display.’ Unfortunately we witness the plague of sin in our own lives and hear it broadcast on the news every day, and usually it’s not very funny, is it?
But there is good news! Good news of great joy, as the angels announced that first Christmas! God wasn’t satisfied to condemn us to everlasting separation from Himself. Like a mother or father for their children, he longed to be with us. His love compelled Him to send His Son on a rescue mission for us. He sent Jesus, born of virgin Mary, miraculously transported from heaven to earth that first Christmas. Christ came and lived a perfect life of obedience to His Father and took upon Himself the punishment our sins deserved in order to provide forgiveness and reconciliation to our Father in heaven. His death and resurrection have purchased this gift for us! We now have this invitation to be reconciled to God through the Savior of the world. John 1:12 “But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God” This is truly the best gift you will ever be offered! But a gift offered does not guarantee a gift received, does it? One could choose to reject the gift, thinking they have no need or desire for it. I pray that you would receive the gift of Jesus for yourself if you haven’t already. If you’re not sure whether you have, let me ask you a question: Can you put our name in the blank of this promise? “For God so loved (your name) that He sent His Only Son for (your name) that you would believe in Him and not perish but have eternal life. “
This gift not only has something of the Giver in it, perfectly expressing His love, and meeting our greatest need, but it also fulfills our deepest desires. We are all made with desires for true, unfailing love and for purpose and security. God made us, He knows us more than even our spouse or best friend could. He understands us better than we do!! And the amazing thing is that He loves us, warts and all!! We don’t surprise Him with our weaknesses and failures. In fact, He sees every day before it comes to be and knows every word we’re going to speak before we speak it! That’s a lot of words, huh, ladies?!! (Psalm 139:4,16)“even before a word is on my tongue, behold, O Lord, you know it altogether, in your book were written all my days before they come to be.”
He loves us perfectly based on Christ’s performance, not our own. He has made us uniquely with a specific purpose in mind and He promises to provide all we need to fulfill His plans. He satisfies our desires with good things. I’m not saying life will be easy, no, this is not heaven yet, and there is suffering. In fact, I was thinking about how Mary and Joseph’s lives became more complicated and challenging when Jesus came into the picture!! But He comforts us in our trials , and uses them to teach us to trust Him, to set our hearts on heaven, and to make us more like Him. To top it all off, He grants us unending companionship with Himself! We can talk to Him anytime and He is always listening! He showers us with grace and mercy every single day. He promises never to leave or forsake us! At death we will NOT part from Him! He will carry us from this world to heaven.
Do you see why I think this gift of Christ has all the earmarks of the best gift ever? He was God’s perfect way of expressing Himself and His love to us. He meets our greatest need, and fulfills our deepest desires. We were not meant to travel this life alone, ladies. The greatest blessing and the ultimate purpose in life is to know and enjoy a relationship with our Creator. And when we know Him, we will bring that blessing to others. The material gifts we give and receive are nice, but honestly they don't last and I don’t remember them for long. In fact, that piano keyboard I told you about became a toy for my kids and eventually got broken. I still haven’t learned to play!! But this gift of Jesus will never be forgotten and will not pass away. Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today and forever!
What is the greatest Christmas present you’ve ever received? I don’t have anything that amazing, but I do remember a gift Paul gave me our first Christmas together after we were married. I’d always wanted to learn to play the piano and a friend had given me some lessons my senior year of college. But then Paul and I got together and I got a bit distracted and the lessons fell by the wayside! Paul surprised me with a beautiful keyboard with all the bells and whistles. It had the different settings like grand piano, clarinet. and even disco! It was a great blessing.
As I’ve reflected on what makes for a great gift, I think it’s the ones that express love, that meet a need or desire, as well as those homemade gifts that have something of the giver in them, that mean the most. I’d like to propose to you that God gave us the greatest gift that first Christmas, one that truly has something of the giver in it, perfectly expresses His love, and fulfills our deepest needs and desires.
Let me try to explain: First some Scriptural background: Gen. 1:1-2 “In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth. The earth was without form and void, and darkness was over the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God was hovering over the face of the waters. And God said, “Let there be light, and there was light.” And on the passage goes, with God creating everything by His Word. Each day heralded another command that His creation be designed. The mountains, and seas, the animals, and flowers - all the beauty we see around us God spoke into being! And, fortunately for us, on the sixth day, He made mankind. He said, “let us make man in our own image, after our likeness. So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him, male and female he created them.”(Gen.1:26-27) (Now this was long before the first Christmas, but it sounds very similar to passages in the gospel of John and the book of Colossians: (John 1:1-4) “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. ..All things were made through him, .. In him was life, and the life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it. (v.14) And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen his glory, glory of the only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth.” (Col 1:15-19) “He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation. For by him all things were made, in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, --all things were created through him and for him. For in him all the fullness of God was pleased to dwell.”
The Word that existed in eternity past, God Himself who created all things, came wrapped up in a baby that first Christmas! The term ‘the Word’ conveys the notion of divine self-expression or speech. I would say this gift of Jesus truly had something of the Giver in it!!! God’s very essence indeed! God also expresses His perfect love and meets our greatest need in this gift. Why did He God give us Jesus? John 3:16 explains: “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.” Our greatest need is not material (as pressing as these can be), but spiritual. You see, soon after God had finished his amazing creation, the perfect harmony Adam and Eve enjoyed with Him and each other was destroyed by sin. Ever since the fall in the garden, mankind has been exiled from God, because the holy God cannot dwell in the presence of sin. This disease of the soul has infected all humanity. Our sins, whether many or few, whether acknowledged or denied, have separated us from God and effect all our relationships. I must admit I can easily go from being good to being more like the grinch in the course of a day. Selfishness and pride rear their ugly heads.
Paul sent me these true , humorous accounts of the Christmas spirit gone bad: ‘ Although most people don't know what to do with their tree once the celebration is over, a woman in Victoria, British Columbia, had an idea. She was arrested for beating a man with her Christmas tree. The incident was sparked when the man grumbled that the load of gifts in his arms was heavier than the tree she was carrying.’ and another one: ‘When her Jensen Beach, Florida, apartment complex held a Christmas-lights competition, Donna Simmons-Groover was a winner…briefly. One of her neighbors, incensed at losing the contest, ripped down part of Donna's winning display.’ Unfortunately we witness the plague of sin in our own lives and hear it broadcast on the news every day, and usually it’s not very funny, is it?
But there is good news! Good news of great joy, as the angels announced that first Christmas! God wasn’t satisfied to condemn us to everlasting separation from Himself. Like a mother or father for their children, he longed to be with us. His love compelled Him to send His Son on a rescue mission for us. He sent Jesus, born of virgin Mary, miraculously transported from heaven to earth that first Christmas. Christ came and lived a perfect life of obedience to His Father and took upon Himself the punishment our sins deserved in order to provide forgiveness and reconciliation to our Father in heaven. His death and resurrection have purchased this gift for us! We now have this invitation to be reconciled to God through the Savior of the world. John 1:12 “But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God” This is truly the best gift you will ever be offered! But a gift offered does not guarantee a gift received, does it? One could choose to reject the gift, thinking they have no need or desire for it. I pray that you would receive the gift of Jesus for yourself if you haven’t already. If you’re not sure whether you have, let me ask you a question: Can you put our name in the blank of this promise? “For God so loved (your name) that He sent His Only Son for (your name) that you would believe in Him and not perish but have eternal life. “
This gift not only has something of the Giver in it, perfectly expressing His love, and meeting our greatest need, but it also fulfills our deepest desires. We are all made with desires for true, unfailing love and for purpose and security. God made us, He knows us more than even our spouse or best friend could. He understands us better than we do!! And the amazing thing is that He loves us, warts and all!! We don’t surprise Him with our weaknesses and failures. In fact, He sees every day before it comes to be and knows every word we’re going to speak before we speak it! That’s a lot of words, huh, ladies?!! (Psalm 139:4,16)“even before a word is on my tongue, behold, O Lord, you know it altogether, in your book were written all my days before they come to be.”
He loves us perfectly based on Christ’s performance, not our own. He has made us uniquely with a specific purpose in mind and He promises to provide all we need to fulfill His plans. He satisfies our desires with good things. I’m not saying life will be easy, no, this is not heaven yet, and there is suffering. In fact, I was thinking about how Mary and Joseph’s lives became more complicated and challenging when Jesus came into the picture!! But He comforts us in our trials , and uses them to teach us to trust Him, to set our hearts on heaven, and to make us more like Him. To top it all off, He grants us unending companionship with Himself! We can talk to Him anytime and He is always listening! He showers us with grace and mercy every single day. He promises never to leave or forsake us! At death we will NOT part from Him! He will carry us from this world to heaven.
Do you see why I think this gift of Christ has all the earmarks of the best gift ever? He was God’s perfect way of expressing Himself and His love to us. He meets our greatest need, and fulfills our deepest desires. We were not meant to travel this life alone, ladies. The greatest blessing and the ultimate purpose in life is to know and enjoy a relationship with our Creator. And when we know Him, we will bring that blessing to others. The material gifts we give and receive are nice, but honestly they don't last and I don’t remember them for long. In fact, that piano keyboard I told you about became a toy for my kids and eventually got broken. I still haven’t learned to play!! But this gift of Jesus will never be forgotten and will not pass away. Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today and forever!
Hospitality
From a Ladies' Breakfast last spring:
I wanted to take a little time to talk about the gift of hospitality since I believe we as women play a key role in the administration of this gift. To practice hospitality is a command in Scripture, given in both Romans and 1Peter. That’s how important it is.
I think you’ll agree that hospitality is a strength in our church. My purpose is to only encourage that we continue to excel more and more in this gift.
So what exactly is does it mean to practice hospitality?
The command in the original language contains expressions like ‘Strive for, pursue with eagerness or enthusiasm, seek out opportunities to offer generous, cordial reception of guests, offering a pleasant sustaining environment.’
My earliest memory of Christian hospitality occurred during my freshman year at college. I was in the process being drawn to Christ through the love of new friends and was invited to a family’s home for dinner. It was nothing fancy- assembly line style. I don’t recall what we ate but I do remember this joyful, welcoming family, relaxing, and watching a ball game on TV with us. The love displayed in this family captured my heart and inspired me to trust Christ for my future family.
1Peter4:8-10 “Above all, keep fervent in your love for one another, because love covers a multitude of sins. Be hospitable to one another without complaint. As each one has received a special gift, employ it in serving one another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.”
Hospitality opens the door for us to use our gifts to bless others. For example, prayer, encouragement, evangelism, and discipleship are all effectively done when we invite one another into our lives and homes.
Interesting that the command says to offer hospitality without complaining. Why might complaining be a temptation in this context? Could it be because we're called to share our most precious possessions: our family, home, finances, food, privacy and time? Hospitality can be sacrificial and hard work! It is an opportunity to lay down our lives for others. But the rewards are great. Through hospitality we provide friendship, acceptance, fellowship, refreshment, comfort and love in one of the richest and deepest ways possible.
The ministry of hospitality was a prominent feature in the picture of the early church. One of the key factors that helps explain the rapid expansion of Christianity was the love displayed among the first Christians. In an ancient Latin Christian dialogue entitled ‘Octavius’, the pagan Caecilius criticizes the Christians because “hardly have they met when they love each other, indiscriminately they call each other brother and sister."
The first Christians referred to one another as brother or sister-this reference is used 250x in NT! Of all the images used to describe the nature of the church like the body, bride, temple and flock, by far the family is the most frequent. Sadly, by the end of the 3rd century, such endearing terminology began to disappear.
We’re brothers and sisters not because we share similar ideas, interests or circumstances, but because we share the life of Jesus through our spiritual birth. We have the same Father in heaven, the One who loved us so much he sent his Son to save us from our sins! Remember what we were before we knew the Lord: Eph. 2 describes the before and after scenario: we were "separated from Christ, strangers to the covenant promises, having no hope and without God in the world.' (Eph.2:12).
"But now in Christ you who once were far off have been brought near by the blood of Christ. He himself is our peace who has made us one. Through him we have access in one Spirit to the Father. So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God, built on the foundation of the apostles and the prophets, Christ Jesus himself being the cornerstone, in whom the whole structure, being joined and held together, grows into a holy temple in the Lord. In him you also are being built together into a dwelling place for God by the Spirit."
Jesus' death on the cross paid the penalty for our sins and his resurrection has opened for us eternal fellowship with God and with fellow believers! In Christ, we have an unbreakable family bond. No wonder God calls us to practice this gift of hospitality, to build us up in our faith and unity. Our fellowship is a foretaste of what heaven will be like.
The Puritans who settled America brought this understanding of community with them. John Winthrop, first governor of MA Bay Colony wrote, "This love among Christians is absolutely necessary to the well being of the body of Christ, as the sinews and other ligaments of the natural body are to its health...Thus stands the cause between God and us; we are entered into covenant with Him for this work..for this end we must be knit together as one man..we must delight in each other, make one another's condition our own, rejoice together, mourn together, labor and suffer together, always having our eyes on our Commission and Community, as members of the same body. So shall we keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace...We shall find that the God of Israel is among us, when He shall make us a praise and glory, that men of succeeding plantations shall say, 'The Lord make it like that of New England.' For we must consider that we shall be as a city upon a hill..." (The Light and Glory).
What a legacy! Sadly New England is far from this picture and influence on the rest of the country. If anything we're known more for our rugged individualism (remember where the revolutionary war began!) . But I believe the vision and prayers have not perished before God and that today there is a quiet revival as more and more churches are being planted and the gospel is spreading.
I love how John Winthrop put it: 'having our eyes on our community and our commission.' We don't want to fall into laziness as we enjoy our community, but must remember there are more people to invite in to the fellowship we share, and ultimately to the ultimate party we will enjoy in heaven!
“Christian perseverance is a community endeavor”, so let’s consider how we can use this gift of hospitality to spur one another on in love and good works. We have many great examples around us to follow.
Rom.16:1-2 “I commend to you our sister Phoebe, a servant of the church at Cenchrae, that you may welcome her in the Lord in a way worthy of the saints, and help her in whatever she may need from you, for she has been a patron of many and of myself as well.”
Phoebe was evidently a new comer who served the church. We have our own Phoebe in Lauren Cranmer. Lauren has left family and friends to serve our church and has been welcomed especially by the Haavisto's where she is living and enfolded into their family. May we embrace her and care for her as well.
I have many experiences on the receiving end of hospitality. Dinner with many of you, either in your homes or out to eat; we've enjoyed deepening friendships. And care group at the Kings' and the other host families. The labor and rewards of hospitality are clearly seen in these contexts!
There's just something about being in someones home that helps deepen our relationships. You see the taste and personality of a family in their home. "Women really do have an instinctive capacity to form relationships and to cultivate a sense of family." (Susan Hunt) And what better place to cultivate friendships than in our homes. Another great quote: "What a queer way we womenkind have of confiding in each other with perfectly reckless disregard of the consequences! It is a mercy that men are, for the most part, more prudent, though not half so delightful!" (Elizabeth Prentiss)
One family that has blown me away with their pursuit of hospitality is the Gennells. They invited our family for dinner soon after they started visiting KGC. We are one of many families who have been blessed by their generous gift of hospitality.
I want to encourage you that this gift can be given on Sunday mornings right here as we greet one another and welcome our guests, which, by the way, you do so well already. We are blessed with this beautiful family home to use for hospitality, with teas, showers, prayer meetings, play groups, and the list of ideas is virtually endless!!
To help spur us on, may I remind you that whatever you do to the least of these, you do to Jesus. This is a helpful reminder for me when I am battling my natural desire to stay in my comfort zone and only engage people who are like me.
The command doesn’t require gourmet meals, meticulous homes, or perfectly godly families. It's not about that. It's about being like our Lord, who invites us to open the door and enjoy fellowship with Him. (Rev. 3:20)
I'm so thankful for that first experience of hospitality I had when I was so young and struggling to understand the Lord. If it hadn't been for this family and the other Christians reaching out and expressing God's heart to me, I do not know where I'd be today.
Some ideas:
Pray for the Lord's direction in our pursuit of this gift and command.
Set goals: specific people to invite over or out, schedule dates.
Don’t forget the widows, students, guests and new members among us.
Be open to inviting new guests to join you for a meal once in a while after church. (this gives us the opportunity to "entertain strangers, for by doing so some people have entertained angels without knowing it" Hebrews 13:2) We may not ever get to host angels, but we will do have the privilege of honoring the Lord by loving and serving His precious children.
I wanted to take a little time to talk about the gift of hospitality since I believe we as women play a key role in the administration of this gift. To practice hospitality is a command in Scripture, given in both Romans and 1Peter. That’s how important it is.
I think you’ll agree that hospitality is a strength in our church. My purpose is to only encourage that we continue to excel more and more in this gift.
So what exactly is does it mean to practice hospitality?
The command in the original language contains expressions like ‘Strive for, pursue with eagerness or enthusiasm, seek out opportunities to offer generous, cordial reception of guests, offering a pleasant sustaining environment.’
My earliest memory of Christian hospitality occurred during my freshman year at college. I was in the process being drawn to Christ through the love of new friends and was invited to a family’s home for dinner. It was nothing fancy- assembly line style. I don’t recall what we ate but I do remember this joyful, welcoming family, relaxing, and watching a ball game on TV with us. The love displayed in this family captured my heart and inspired me to trust Christ for my future family.
1Peter4:8-10 “Above all, keep fervent in your love for one another, because love covers a multitude of sins. Be hospitable to one another without complaint. As each one has received a special gift, employ it in serving one another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.”
Hospitality opens the door for us to use our gifts to bless others. For example, prayer, encouragement, evangelism, and discipleship are all effectively done when we invite one another into our lives and homes.
Interesting that the command says to offer hospitality without complaining. Why might complaining be a temptation in this context? Could it be because we're called to share our most precious possessions: our family, home, finances, food, privacy and time? Hospitality can be sacrificial and hard work! It is an opportunity to lay down our lives for others. But the rewards are great. Through hospitality we provide friendship, acceptance, fellowship, refreshment, comfort and love in one of the richest and deepest ways possible.
The ministry of hospitality was a prominent feature in the picture of the early church. One of the key factors that helps explain the rapid expansion of Christianity was the love displayed among the first Christians. In an ancient Latin Christian dialogue entitled ‘Octavius’, the pagan Caecilius criticizes the Christians because “hardly have they met when they love each other, indiscriminately they call each other brother and sister."
The first Christians referred to one another as brother or sister-this reference is used 250x in NT! Of all the images used to describe the nature of the church like the body, bride, temple and flock, by far the family is the most frequent. Sadly, by the end of the 3rd century, such endearing terminology began to disappear.
We’re brothers and sisters not because we share similar ideas, interests or circumstances, but because we share the life of Jesus through our spiritual birth. We have the same Father in heaven, the One who loved us so much he sent his Son to save us from our sins! Remember what we were before we knew the Lord: Eph. 2 describes the before and after scenario: we were "separated from Christ, strangers to the covenant promises, having no hope and without God in the world.' (Eph.2:12).
"But now in Christ you who once were far off have been brought near by the blood of Christ. He himself is our peace who has made us one. Through him we have access in one Spirit to the Father. So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God, built on the foundation of the apostles and the prophets, Christ Jesus himself being the cornerstone, in whom the whole structure, being joined and held together, grows into a holy temple in the Lord. In him you also are being built together into a dwelling place for God by the Spirit."
Jesus' death on the cross paid the penalty for our sins and his resurrection has opened for us eternal fellowship with God and with fellow believers! In Christ, we have an unbreakable family bond. No wonder God calls us to practice this gift of hospitality, to build us up in our faith and unity. Our fellowship is a foretaste of what heaven will be like.
The Puritans who settled America brought this understanding of community with them. John Winthrop, first governor of MA Bay Colony wrote, "This love among Christians is absolutely necessary to the well being of the body of Christ, as the sinews and other ligaments of the natural body are to its health...Thus stands the cause between God and us; we are entered into covenant with Him for this work..for this end we must be knit together as one man..we must delight in each other, make one another's condition our own, rejoice together, mourn together, labor and suffer together, always having our eyes on our Commission and Community, as members of the same body. So shall we keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace...We shall find that the God of Israel is among us, when He shall make us a praise and glory, that men of succeeding plantations shall say, 'The Lord make it like that of New England.' For we must consider that we shall be as a city upon a hill..." (The Light and Glory).
What a legacy! Sadly New England is far from this picture and influence on the rest of the country. If anything we're known more for our rugged individualism (remember where the revolutionary war began!) . But I believe the vision and prayers have not perished before God and that today there is a quiet revival as more and more churches are being planted and the gospel is spreading.
I love how John Winthrop put it: 'having our eyes on our community and our commission.' We don't want to fall into laziness as we enjoy our community, but must remember there are more people to invite in to the fellowship we share, and ultimately to the ultimate party we will enjoy in heaven!
“Christian perseverance is a community endeavor”, so let’s consider how we can use this gift of hospitality to spur one another on in love and good works. We have many great examples around us to follow.
Rom.16:1-2 “I commend to you our sister Phoebe, a servant of the church at Cenchrae, that you may welcome her in the Lord in a way worthy of the saints, and help her in whatever she may need from you, for she has been a patron of many and of myself as well.”
Phoebe was evidently a new comer who served the church. We have our own Phoebe in Lauren Cranmer. Lauren has left family and friends to serve our church and has been welcomed especially by the Haavisto's where she is living and enfolded into their family. May we embrace her and care for her as well.
I have many experiences on the receiving end of hospitality. Dinner with many of you, either in your homes or out to eat; we've enjoyed deepening friendships. And care group at the Kings' and the other host families. The labor and rewards of hospitality are clearly seen in these contexts!
There's just something about being in someones home that helps deepen our relationships. You see the taste and personality of a family in their home. "Women really do have an instinctive capacity to form relationships and to cultivate a sense of family." (Susan Hunt) And what better place to cultivate friendships than in our homes. Another great quote: "What a queer way we womenkind have of confiding in each other with perfectly reckless disregard of the consequences! It is a mercy that men are, for the most part, more prudent, though not half so delightful!" (Elizabeth Prentiss)
One family that has blown me away with their pursuit of hospitality is the Gennells. They invited our family for dinner soon after they started visiting KGC. We are one of many families who have been blessed by their generous gift of hospitality.
I want to encourage you that this gift can be given on Sunday mornings right here as we greet one another and welcome our guests, which, by the way, you do so well already. We are blessed with this beautiful family home to use for hospitality, with teas, showers, prayer meetings, play groups, and the list of ideas is virtually endless!!
To help spur us on, may I remind you that whatever you do to the least of these, you do to Jesus. This is a helpful reminder for me when I am battling my natural desire to stay in my comfort zone and only engage people who are like me.
The command doesn’t require gourmet meals, meticulous homes, or perfectly godly families. It's not about that. It's about being like our Lord, who invites us to open the door and enjoy fellowship with Him. (Rev. 3:20)
I'm so thankful for that first experience of hospitality I had when I was so young and struggling to understand the Lord. If it hadn't been for this family and the other Christians reaching out and expressing God's heart to me, I do not know where I'd be today.
Some ideas:
Pray for the Lord's direction in our pursuit of this gift and command.
Set goals: specific people to invite over or out, schedule dates.
Don’t forget the widows, students, guests and new members among us.
Be open to inviting new guests to join you for a meal once in a while after church. (this gives us the opportunity to "entertain strangers, for by doing so some people have entertained angels without knowing it" Hebrews 13:2) We may not ever get to host angels, but we will do have the privilege of honoring the Lord by loving and serving His precious children.
Saturday, January 15, 2011
Ladies' Christmas Tea Talk
Here's the message I shared at our first annual ladies' tea. I went off script a bit, but God helped me! We had 80 ladies in attendance, about half were guests!
It is wonderful to be here with all of you! To slow down and enjoy this special time with friends & family. Thanks to all of you who prepared the delicious food! I also want to thank the ladies on the planning team who made this event possible: Micki, Leslie, Barb, Lauren, could you please stand up? Thank you!!
I want to take a few minutes to reflect on the best Christmas gift of all.
Matthew explains in his gospel: "All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet (Isaiah:) “Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall call his name Immanuel.”
Immanuel means “God is with us”. God Himself came wrapped up in a baby. He was not content to remain distant from us; He stooped down to live among us. He gave us Himself!
I've known about Him since my childhood, thanks to my devout parents and regular attendance at church. I knew He was real and was there, kind of like a neighbor I’d drive by and wave to. A comfortable distance. I took for granted His presence and promises, but I didn't really take them to heart.
I was a typical high school teenager- cheerleader and social butterfly. I went off to college and it was there that a couple of friends invited me to a bible study. I honestly wasn't interested, but they made great chocolate chip cookies and were so nice that I decided to attend. We studied the gospel of John. I got a bit uncomfortable when I read that Jesus said, "If you love me, you'll obey me." Oops! I really believed I loved God, but thought he'd understand that girls just want to have fun. I hadn't connected the dots that obedience is what proved my love to Him. I didn’t know that He took my sin so seriously.
I knew that I was a sinner-I'd lived long enough to figure that out! I realized that my sins actually separated me from this Holy God. But then there was the good news, that God so loved the world that He gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. He was showing me this Christmas gift, the Savior of the world, the Savior of me. I was beginning to take it personally. It’s like the most amazing gift exchange: Jesus taking my sin and dying on the cross to pay its penalty, then rising again and offering me forgiveness and reconciliation to God. The Holy Spirit was at work!
I had a choice. I could keep trying to figure out life on my own, going my own way, or give my life to Him. It dawned on me that he knew what was best for me and I didn't. The longer I waited, the more miserable I felt! The parties and boyfriend weren't satisfying this new longing in my heart for Jesus, in fact they were bringing me further away from His embrace. I wanted to please him but couldn't on my own. He was calling me to confess my sins, turn away from them and receive His mercy. I'm so glad I did!
Since that time, some 26 years ago, I've had plenty of ups and downs, many sins and failings, but thankfully salvation is a gift that was given to me and earned by Christ. His mercies are new every morning, and that's because I need them! Jesus is truly the best gift I've ever received. The more I get to know Him the more treasures I discover in Him!
He speaks to us through His Word. He hears and answers our prayers. He provides our needs. He keeps His promises to strengthen and guide us. His Presence brings comfort and peace through all the changes and uncertainties of this life. He never changes. The more we trust in Him, the more peace we have. He will never let go of us once we’ve given our heart to Him!
Rev. 3:20 “Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me."
Matthew Henry, a pastor who lived a long time ago, wrote:
“ Christ is graciously pleased by his word and Spirit to come to the door of the heart of sinners; he draws near to them in a way of mercy, ready to make them a kind visit. [2.] He finds this door shut against him; the heart of man is by nature shut up against Christ by ignorance, unbelief, sinful prejudices. [3.] When he finds the heart shut, he does not immediately withdraw, but he waits to be gracious. [4.] He uses all proper means to awaken sinners, and to cause them to open to him: he calls by his word, he knocks by the impulses of his Spirit upon their conscience. [5.] Those who open to him shall enjoy his presence, to their great comfort and advantage. He will sup with them; he will give fresh supplies of graces and comforts, and thereby stir up fresh actings of faith, and love, and delight; and in all this Christ and his repenting people will enjoy pleasant communion with each other. Alas! what careless obstinate sinners lose by refusing to open the door of the heart to Christ!”
May we open our hearts to Him who gave His very life for us. He is always inviting us to spend time with him. Immanuel, God is with us! He has all the time in the world for us, ladies, do we have time for him?
The longer I live the more I understand that time is a precious gift. We live each day choosing how we will invest this gift. It's a challenge to redeem it and not waste it. Sometimes it takes a crisis of health to help us to stop and savor the gift of time..
That happened to me in 2002. We were blessed to move to Haverhill, near my whole family. My dad was very sick. He'd had a stroke and was diagnosed with Lewy Body disease, a dementia similar to Alzheimers. His life, which had been so full and strong came to a stand still. My mom, brothers and sister rallied around him, determined to keep him home We took turns caring for him. I remember he'd light up when I arrived, squeezing my hand, whispering my name and saying "I love you." He couldn't say much, but that was more enough for me!
That 3 1/2 years was so precious to me. The things that would’ve distracted me in ‘ordinary’ times just didn’t matter as much in that season. It was an honor and privilege to serve to the man who had given so much to me. There was also a satisfaction in knowing that Jesus said that whatever we do to the least of these, we do to Him.
I miss him so much but am comforted to know that he’s in heaven waiting for me.
God has not left us as orphans. Jesus said before ascending to heaven, " behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age." He had explained to his disciples that it was better for them that he return there so that he could pour out the Holy Spirit upon His children.
The Holy Spirit is God’s Presence in us!! Christ in all believers, the hope of glory!!
He’s given to cheer and to guide us. To comfort us, teach us and to help us to fulfill our calling; empowering us to be His hands and feet in this world.. He is still Immanuel, God with us.
There was no room available for baby Jesus in Bethlehem that first Christmas. Business was booming for the inn keepers, but they missed the opportunity of hosting the birth of the King of Kings! God was whispering, ‘be still and know that I am God!’ but only a few heard. May He give us ears to hear and faith to receive him into our hearts.
In the hustle and bustle of this season and of this life, may we stop and enjoy this greatest gift: Immanuel, God with us!
It is wonderful to be here with all of you! To slow down and enjoy this special time with friends & family. Thanks to all of you who prepared the delicious food! I also want to thank the ladies on the planning team who made this event possible: Micki, Leslie, Barb, Lauren, could you please stand up? Thank you!!
I want to take a few minutes to reflect on the best Christmas gift of all.
Matthew explains in his gospel: "All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet (Isaiah:) “Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall call his name Immanuel.”
Immanuel means “God is with us”. God Himself came wrapped up in a baby. He was not content to remain distant from us; He stooped down to live among us. He gave us Himself!
I've known about Him since my childhood, thanks to my devout parents and regular attendance at church. I knew He was real and was there, kind of like a neighbor I’d drive by and wave to. A comfortable distance. I took for granted His presence and promises, but I didn't really take them to heart.
I was a typical high school teenager- cheerleader and social butterfly. I went off to college and it was there that a couple of friends invited me to a bible study. I honestly wasn't interested, but they made great chocolate chip cookies and were so nice that I decided to attend. We studied the gospel of John. I got a bit uncomfortable when I read that Jesus said, "If you love me, you'll obey me." Oops! I really believed I loved God, but thought he'd understand that girls just want to have fun. I hadn't connected the dots that obedience is what proved my love to Him. I didn’t know that He took my sin so seriously.
I knew that I was a sinner-I'd lived long enough to figure that out! I realized that my sins actually separated me from this Holy God. But then there was the good news, that God so loved the world that He gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. He was showing me this Christmas gift, the Savior of the world, the Savior of me. I was beginning to take it personally. It’s like the most amazing gift exchange: Jesus taking my sin and dying on the cross to pay its penalty, then rising again and offering me forgiveness and reconciliation to God. The Holy Spirit was at work!
I had a choice. I could keep trying to figure out life on my own, going my own way, or give my life to Him. It dawned on me that he knew what was best for me and I didn't. The longer I waited, the more miserable I felt! The parties and boyfriend weren't satisfying this new longing in my heart for Jesus, in fact they were bringing me further away from His embrace. I wanted to please him but couldn't on my own. He was calling me to confess my sins, turn away from them and receive His mercy. I'm so glad I did!
Since that time, some 26 years ago, I've had plenty of ups and downs, many sins and failings, but thankfully salvation is a gift that was given to me and earned by Christ. His mercies are new every morning, and that's because I need them! Jesus is truly the best gift I've ever received. The more I get to know Him the more treasures I discover in Him!
He speaks to us through His Word. He hears and answers our prayers. He provides our needs. He keeps His promises to strengthen and guide us. His Presence brings comfort and peace through all the changes and uncertainties of this life. He never changes. The more we trust in Him, the more peace we have. He will never let go of us once we’ve given our heart to Him!
Rev. 3:20 “Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me."
Matthew Henry, a pastor who lived a long time ago, wrote:
“ Christ is graciously pleased by his word and Spirit to come to the door of the heart of sinners; he draws near to them in a way of mercy, ready to make them a kind visit. [2.] He finds this door shut against him; the heart of man is by nature shut up against Christ by ignorance, unbelief, sinful prejudices. [3.] When he finds the heart shut, he does not immediately withdraw, but he waits to be gracious. [4.] He uses all proper means to awaken sinners, and to cause them to open to him: he calls by his word, he knocks by the impulses of his Spirit upon their conscience. [5.] Those who open to him shall enjoy his presence, to their great comfort and advantage. He will sup with them; he will give fresh supplies of graces and comforts, and thereby stir up fresh actings of faith, and love, and delight; and in all this Christ and his repenting people will enjoy pleasant communion with each other. Alas! what careless obstinate sinners lose by refusing to open the door of the heart to Christ!”
May we open our hearts to Him who gave His very life for us. He is always inviting us to spend time with him. Immanuel, God is with us! He has all the time in the world for us, ladies, do we have time for him?
The longer I live the more I understand that time is a precious gift. We live each day choosing how we will invest this gift. It's a challenge to redeem it and not waste it. Sometimes it takes a crisis of health to help us to stop and savor the gift of time..
That happened to me in 2002. We were blessed to move to Haverhill, near my whole family. My dad was very sick. He'd had a stroke and was diagnosed with Lewy Body disease, a dementia similar to Alzheimers. His life, which had been so full and strong came to a stand still. My mom, brothers and sister rallied around him, determined to keep him home We took turns caring for him. I remember he'd light up when I arrived, squeezing my hand, whispering my name and saying "I love you." He couldn't say much, but that was more enough for me!
That 3 1/2 years was so precious to me. The things that would’ve distracted me in ‘ordinary’ times just didn’t matter as much in that season. It was an honor and privilege to serve to the man who had given so much to me. There was also a satisfaction in knowing that Jesus said that whatever we do to the least of these, we do to Him.
I miss him so much but am comforted to know that he’s in heaven waiting for me.
God has not left us as orphans. Jesus said before ascending to heaven, " behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age." He had explained to his disciples that it was better for them that he return there so that he could pour out the Holy Spirit upon His children.
The Holy Spirit is God’s Presence in us!! Christ in all believers, the hope of glory!!
He’s given to cheer and to guide us. To comfort us, teach us and to help us to fulfill our calling; empowering us to be His hands and feet in this world.. He is still Immanuel, God with us.
There was no room available for baby Jesus in Bethlehem that first Christmas. Business was booming for the inn keepers, but they missed the opportunity of hosting the birth of the King of Kings! God was whispering, ‘be still and know that I am God!’ but only a few heard. May He give us ears to hear and faith to receive him into our hearts.
In the hustle and bustle of this season and of this life, may we stop and enjoy this greatest gift: Immanuel, God with us!
Saturday, September 11, 2010
Jamie
I met Jamie at the grocery store when Daniel was a baby, some 21 years ago. He used to bag my groceries and always had a great big smile and friendly greeting. I could tell he was ‘special needs’ somehow, although he looked perfectly fine. He was Paul’s age; a year older than me. A tall, burly blonde teddy bear type!
It wasn’t long before he knew us by name and would remember details of our lives that we’d share. God put him on my heart to reach out to and be a friend. I ignored these promptings until Jamie and his mom ‘happened’ to sit right beside us at Friendly’s one day. I knew it was my cue and that I should go and introduce myself to his mom. She was happy to see he had a friend and I mentioned that we’d like to have him over to our home some time. We exchanged numbers and that was the beginning of our friendship.
I learned that Jamie had had oxygen deprivation at birth due to the umbilical cord around his neck. This effected his development and he was like an eight year old. He was refreshingly childlike and sensitive. He was also a diligent worker and bagged groceries for over 20 years at Star Market.
Jamie would often come to our house for our small group fellowship. He would sometimes join us for church as well. He loved Lost in Space and 1970’s music and shows. I reminded him of Laura Brannigan and Paul was the professor from Gilligan’s Island (everyone reminded him of a celebrity)! Jamie never forgot our birthdays or anniversary, and even after we moved to Maryland in 1994, he always sent us greeting cards to celebrate, as well as updates on his life. The kids loved reading his letters in his block style penmanship.
His mom’s death was especially hard for him. He moved to live with a caretaker after that. His cat Louie was one of his closest companions and he was again hit hard when he died. A highlight for Jamie each year was Camp. He so enjoyed the anticipation and then the participation in that special place.
We were happy when we returned to the area to get to see Jamie on his birthday. Several friends would gather for his party and bless him with his favorite food, drink and music. Jamie would beam!
This past spring we weren’t able to make the party. I heard from my friend Anne soon after that Jamie had cancer. I called him and realized he didn’t understand his illness very much but was receiving chemo and radiation. I spoke with him again a month later and could tell he was in great pain I sought to comfort him and he comforted me when he heard me cry. I told him we’d come in soon to see him. Unfortunately, he died before we got there. I regret not seeing him before he died. He was such a special friend.
I missed Jamie's birthday card this month and will miss this thoughtful greetings and friendship. My life is richer thanks to him. He taught me about the simple beauty of friendship; slowing down and making time to write that letter or card, taking that step to get to know someone new, someone different. I’m glad I did, even though I wasn’t as faithful a friend as I wished.
Saturday, August 14, 2010
Some Summer Reflection
Here we are again...the heat of summer subtly giving way to the cool of fall..it feels wonderful after an exceptionally hot season here in New England. But, how I savor these last weeks of summer vacation with the kids.
Right now, Caleb is HOME (!) from his excellent adventures at Camp Clear where he served as a counselor for 5 weeks. He had a fantastic time and grew by leaps and bounds!! Mary is here, reading one of her summer assignments for school (go, Mary!).
Paul's taking a nap, and Daniel and John are in NYC for an excellent adventure! They left early this morning by train to enjoy city life for a couple days! This is John's first time to NYC. They hope to visit a couple of colleges John's interested in. Paul caught up with them while they were on the ferry to Statin Island! They'll also stay with a host from our Brooklyn 'sister' church and worship with them tomorrow.
Blog, blog, blog. Paul thinks I should blog more. I wonder what I should blog about.
Life, of course!
Today I was in the van, waiting for my friend Shelley to pick up a few things at Market Basket while little Jamie slept in the car seat. I enjoyed people watching and the thought came to me clear as day why: People are made in the image of God!!!
Did you hear that? Nothing else, no other form of creation can make this claim. Only people are made in the IMAGE of GOD! No wonder they're fascinating! No wonder we are interested in stories, shows, movies, books, drama...life!!!
I get way too busy and forget to stop and take it in-this amazing truth is worth meditating on. If we're made in the image of God, then we have much to learn by honoring each human creature we encounter and learning from their lives. All our lives tell a thousand plus stories. So next time I'm tempted to rush past or get annoyed with someone I hope I can remember they're God's handiwork. I want to learn more what it means..and in so doing hopefully reflect my Lord to others.
Right now, Caleb is HOME (!) from his excellent adventures at Camp Clear where he served as a counselor for 5 weeks. He had a fantastic time and grew by leaps and bounds!! Mary is here, reading one of her summer assignments for school (go, Mary!).
Paul's taking a nap, and Daniel and John are in NYC for an excellent adventure! They left early this morning by train to enjoy city life for a couple days! This is John's first time to NYC. They hope to visit a couple of colleges John's interested in. Paul caught up with them while they were on the ferry to Statin Island! They'll also stay with a host from our Brooklyn 'sister' church and worship with them tomorrow.
Blog, blog, blog. Paul thinks I should blog more. I wonder what I should blog about.
Life, of course!
Today I was in the van, waiting for my friend Shelley to pick up a few things at Market Basket while little Jamie slept in the car seat. I enjoyed people watching and the thought came to me clear as day why: People are made in the image of God!!!
Did you hear that? Nothing else, no other form of creation can make this claim. Only people are made in the IMAGE of GOD! No wonder they're fascinating! No wonder we are interested in stories, shows, movies, books, drama...life!!!
I get way too busy and forget to stop and take it in-this amazing truth is worth meditating on. If we're made in the image of God, then we have much to learn by honoring each human creature we encounter and learning from their lives. All our lives tell a thousand plus stories. So next time I'm tempted to rush past or get annoyed with someone I hope I can remember they're God's handiwork. I want to learn more what it means..and in so doing hopefully reflect my Lord to others.
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Numbered With Sinners- Isaiah 53:12
Imagine being numbered with the most despised? How about sex offenders, for instance? Imagine a list in the newspaper of offenders and your name being on it, even though you're innocent. How outrageous and awful a thought. What shame, dismay, indignation! What a desire to right the wrong, broadcast the truth about your innocence.
Well, Jesus, the perfectly righteous one was numbered with the transgressors. This was inexplicably worse that the above scenario. He was not only numbered with us, but ultimately and thoroughly punished for all our sins.
Why? Spurgeon explains well: 'He was holy and written among the holy; we were guilty and numbered among the guilty; He transfers His name from yonder list to this dark indictment, and our names are taken from the indictment and written in the roll of acceptance, for there is a complete transfer made between Jesus and His people."
Well, Jesus, the perfectly righteous one was numbered with the transgressors. This was inexplicably worse that the above scenario. He was not only numbered with us, but ultimately and thoroughly punished for all our sins.
Why? Spurgeon explains well: 'He was holy and written among the holy; we were guilty and numbered among the guilty; He transfers His name from yonder list to this dark indictment, and our names are taken from the indictment and written in the roll of acceptance, for there is a complete transfer made between Jesus and His people."
Wednesday, December 02, 2009
Contentment
What is the secret of it and how can we attain it. We see today that fame and fortune do not ensure it. Not a great looking spouse or the American dream.
"Godliness with contentment is GREAT gain," the Bible teaches us. We know it's true when we live there-you know, those times when your heart is at rest in God's will, trusting, believing, hoping and ENJOY-
ING His peace and His blessings. But how terribly easy it is to long for the not- given blessings. 'More, more, more,' our hearts cry! How sad that we go there by default more often than not since the fall in Eden. Then the joy we could be enjoying is stolen away.
I pray we'd all stop and learn that this world cannot give us the contentment we long for; it only comes from above. And may the grace of God bestow true contentment so that we can live lives that honor the great Giver and enjoy His many blessings in a way that brings Him the glory He desires and deserves.
He alone can truly satisfy our insatiable hearts. Let it be!!
"Godliness with contentment is GREAT gain," the Bible teaches us. We know it's true when we live there-you know, those times when your heart is at rest in God's will, trusting, believing, hoping and ENJOY-
ING His peace and His blessings. But how terribly easy it is to long for the not- given blessings. 'More, more, more,' our hearts cry! How sad that we go there by default more often than not since the fall in Eden. Then the joy we could be enjoying is stolen away.
I pray we'd all stop and learn that this world cannot give us the contentment we long for; it only comes from above. And may the grace of God bestow true contentment so that we can live lives that honor the great Giver and enjoy His many blessings in a way that brings Him the glory He desires and deserves.
He alone can truly satisfy our insatiable hearts. Let it be!!
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Be Still and Know
“Be still and know that I am God.” Psalm 46
How hard this command is! It’s easier for me to ‘be busy and know that I can accomplish much”.
It’s easier to “be still and know what the latest news or updates are”.
But here it is, the call of God, crystal clear for me to see: “Be still and know that I am God.”
Could it be that there are riches untold for me in this place of stillness; depths of joy and peace and love that I can find no place else?
Treasures stored up for me as I am still and experience the God of the universe’s presence enfolding me and filling me with power and praise to Him?
Maybe this is the reason it is so hard to subdue my flesh and come before Him and truly wait upon Him. The enemy of my soul knows the victory and life this would give me. My own flesh would rather have a field day in the world, even pursuing good things, instead of pursuing the best thing. I can feel important doing something-anything for God (or is it for my glory?). I can run from one good work to another, fulfilling my sense of worth. I can neglect this command so easily and often that it becomes a habit, a mode of life. I still have my quiet time, of course: time in the Word and a few prayers, but not really slow down and be still. And then I wonder where the power for life and godliness went to; where the joy and peace and love have gone.
Hear more of the Psalm:
“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.
Therefore we will not fear, though the earth gives way, through the mountains be moved into the heart of the sea.
There is a river whose streams make glad the city of
God is in the midst of her; she shall not be moved;
God will help her when morning dawns.
The nations rage, the kingdoms totter, he utters his voice, the earth melts.
The Lord of hosts is with us;
the God of Jacob is our fortress.
Be still and know that I am God.
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth!
The Lord of hosts is with us;
The God of Jacob is our fortress.”
Wow, with little old me? With you too? The only true God – the God of eternity is with us! He wants to reveal Himself in the secret, quiet place. May we learn to be still and know that He is God!!
Wednesday, November 05, 2008
Dear President -Elect Obama
Dear President-Elect Obama,
Today I shed tears of joy, along with hundreds of thousands of Americans, for the great victory of your election. The significance of this moment cannot be overstated. Our African-American friends have been oppressed and cast aside for generations in this country of ours. Now, may the shame be completely wiped away and may the glory that this nation represents and strives for become a reality for more and more of our once silenced citizens.
I confess I did not cast my vote for you. Not because you failed to inspire me with your speeches, because you did. Not because you do not impress me with your leadership and vision, because you do. I cast my vote for another based upon my concern for another segment of our society which is downtrodden and cast aside, the weak, the innocent; the unborn.
Mr. President-Elect, I pray that your heart would be burdened as well to do all in your power to encourage the life that is even now forming in many to come to fruition, to share in this great moment in our nation’s history. We all know the times are difficult and no one will escape the trials at hand. Just as this is true, so is the gift and privilege we have to live it. May the millions of unborn get this chance as well. May the virtue of responsibility reign as mothers choose to carry the fruit of their wombs to term, to give the gift of life to another. I ask, President Obama, that you would prayerfully consider your pay grade since indeed it has now risen at this moment in our history. May you be the champion of all those who are weak yet share the same right to life.
May God bless you and your beautiful family.
Sincerely,
Margaret Buckley
Wednesday, May 16, 2007
don't think I have time or motivation for this!
I am officially taking a break, if not ending, blogging. I started without much thought or prayer; impulsively. And I pause here only because I don't see much benefit and the friends I have here aren't blog-world tuned. Please do email me if you'd like because I'd love to keep in touch! I'll still check out some of the blogs of my far away chums as well as some respected leaders and bloggers.
Check back now and then just in case I get a heavenly vision or an inspiration to write again!
Happy Spring and Summer!! May you enjoy God's grace and the manifold beauty of His creation!
Check back now and then just in case I get a heavenly vision or an inspiration to write again!
Happy Spring and Summer!! May you enjoy God's grace and the manifold beauty of His creation!
Thursday, April 19, 2007
Sober Thoughts my my Honey's Blog
Gospel Centered Everything
It is because of him that you are in Christ Jesus, who has become for us wisdom from God - that is, our righteousness, holiness and redemption. Therefore, as it is written: 'Let him who boasts boast in the Lord.' 1 Corinthians 1:30-31 (NIV)
Thursday, April 19, 2007
Grieving, Praying & Remembering
The tragedy of the VT massacre hits home for every American. We are each left with a hollow feeling in our gut and a torrent of confusion in our mind. Add to this the media deluge and the plethora of talking heads all trying to analyze, understand and learn from this tragedy. And then throw it all into the frenetic activism of a society that thinks it can somehow create a perfect world where troubled youths don’t become psychopaths and every kid is safe from evil and you end up with a tempest of national angst.What are we to do amidst all this?Here are a three suggestions:1. Grieve, weep and mourn with those who mourn, without trying to bring trite or Pollyanna answers to people deeply affected by this tragedy. (See John Piper’s apropos comments from 911 here. )2. Pray for the families affected and the VT community. (See Tim Challies listing of prayer requests from pastors on site here, see a list of the victims here and pray for their families and friends.)3. Remembera. Remember that the world we live in is fallen, peopled by fallen human beings who are capable, at times, of great evil and not inherently worthy of a life free from tragedy and death. (See John Piper’s thoughts here.)b. Remember that God came as a man amidst all this evil to rescue us from ourselves and our society and Satan – the three sources of evil. (See Al Mohler’s thoughts here.)c. Remember that God is in control and short of the return of his Son, he does not gaurauntee us safety but ultimate salvation. (Listen to an excellent message from CJ Mahaney on this here.)May God bless you and use you as you grieve, pray and remember truth.Paul
Posted by Paul Buckley
It is because of him that you are in Christ Jesus, who has become for us wisdom from God - that is, our righteousness, holiness and redemption. Therefore, as it is written: 'Let him who boasts boast in the Lord.' 1 Corinthians 1:30-31 (NIV)
Thursday, April 19, 2007
Grieving, Praying & Remembering
The tragedy of the VT massacre hits home for every American. We are each left with a hollow feeling in our gut and a torrent of confusion in our mind. Add to this the media deluge and the plethora of talking heads all trying to analyze, understand and learn from this tragedy. And then throw it all into the frenetic activism of a society that thinks it can somehow create a perfect world where troubled youths don’t become psychopaths and every kid is safe from evil and you end up with a tempest of national angst.What are we to do amidst all this?Here are a three suggestions:1. Grieve, weep and mourn with those who mourn, without trying to bring trite or Pollyanna answers to people deeply affected by this tragedy. (See John Piper’s apropos comments from 911 here. )2. Pray for the families affected and the VT community. (See Tim Challies listing of prayer requests from pastors on site here, see a list of the victims here and pray for their families and friends.)3. Remembera. Remember that the world we live in is fallen, peopled by fallen human beings who are capable, at times, of great evil and not inherently worthy of a life free from tragedy and death. (See John Piper’s thoughts here.)b. Remember that God came as a man amidst all this evil to rescue us from ourselves and our society and Satan – the three sources of evil. (See Al Mohler’s thoughts here.)c. Remember that God is in control and short of the return of his Son, he does not gaurauntee us safety but ultimate salvation. (Listen to an excellent message from CJ Mahaney on this here.)May God bless you and use you as you grieve, pray and remember truth.Paul
Posted by Paul Buckley
Friday, April 06, 2007
How Deep the Father’s Love for Us
How deep the Father’s love for us, how vast beyond all measure
That He should give His only Son to make a wretch His treasure!
How great the pain of searing loss; the Father turns His face away,
As wounds which mar the Chosen One bring many sons to glory.
Behold the Man upon the cross, my sin upon His shoulders;
Ashamed, I hear my mocking voice call out among the scoffers.
It was my sin that held Him there until it was accomplished;
His dying breath has brought me life— I know that it is finished.
I will not boast in anything, no gifts, no power, no wisdom;
But I will boast in Jesus Christ, His death and resurrection.
Why should I gain from His reward? I cannot give an answer.
But this I know with all my heart: His wounds have paid my ransom.
Stuart Townsend © 1995 Kingsway’s Music (ASCAP). Used by Permission. CCLI #89178
That He should give His only Son to make a wretch His treasure!
How great the pain of searing loss; the Father turns His face away,
As wounds which mar the Chosen One bring many sons to glory.
Behold the Man upon the cross, my sin upon His shoulders;
Ashamed, I hear my mocking voice call out among the scoffers.
It was my sin that held Him there until it was accomplished;
His dying breath has brought me life— I know that it is finished.
I will not boast in anything, no gifts, no power, no wisdom;
But I will boast in Jesus Christ, His death and resurrection.
Why should I gain from His reward? I cannot give an answer.
But this I know with all my heart: His wounds have paid my ransom.
Stuart Townsend © 1995 Kingsway’s Music (ASCAP). Used by Permission. CCLI #89178
Friday, March 23, 2007
Sin, Righteousness and MERCY
Just had to share this post.
Mercy Me: Psalm 51 and Everyday Life.
It was one of those moments you want to take back. It was one of those times when you go where your desires and emotions are leading you. It was one of those situations when you know you should stop or walk away but feel you can't. And it was one of those moments when afterward you are confronted with the sin that still lives inside of you. Yes, it was one of those moments.It wasn't a big deal in one way. Just a small conversation that had turned a bit ugly. It wasn't a dramatic life-altering moment. It was in the privacy of my home with one of my family members. But maybe that's the point. Perhaps it's very important because that's where I live everyday. You see, you and I don't live in a series of big, dramatic moments. We don't careen from big decision to big decision. We all live in an endless series of little moments. The character of a life isn't set in ten big moments. The character of a life is set in 10,000 little moments of everyday life. It's the themes of struggles that emerge from those little moments that reveal what's really going on in our hearts.So, I knew I couldn't back away from this little moment. I knew I had to own my sin. The minute I thought this, an inner struggle began. "I wasn't the only one at fault. If he hadn't said what he said, I wouldn't have become angry. I was actually pretty patient for much of the conversation." These were some of the arguments I was giving myself.Isn't this interesting. Rather than appealing to the mercy of the Lord in the face of my sin, what I actually do instead is function as my own defense lawyer and present a list of arguments for my own righteousness. The theology behind the defense is that my greatest problem is outside of me, not inside of me. In so arguing, I'm telling myself that I don't really need to be rescued by the Lord's mercy. No, I'm telling myself that what I need to be rescued from is that sinner in the room who caused me to respond as I did.Here's the point. Before you can ever make a clean and unamended confession of your sin, you have to first begin by confessing your righteousness. It's not just your sin that separates you from God, your righteousness does as well. Because, when you are convinced you are righteous, you don't seek the forgiving, rescuing, and restoring mercy that can only be found in Jesus Christ.What's actually true is that when I come to the Lord after I've blown it, I've only one argument to make. It's not the argument of the difficulty of the environment that I am in. It's not the argument of the difficult people that I'm near. It's not the argument of good intentions that were thwarted in some way. No, I only have one argument. It's right there in the first verse of Psalm 51, as David confesses his sin with Bathsheba. I come to the Lord with only one appeal; his mercy. I've no other defense. I've no other standing. I've no other hope. I can't escape the reality of my biggest problem; me! So I appeal to the one thing in my life that's sure and will never fail. I appeal to the one thing that guaranteed not only my acceptance with God, but the hope of new beginnings and fresh starts. I appeal on the basis of the greatest gift I ever have or ever will be given. I leave the courtroom of my own defense, I come out of hiding and I admit who I am. But I'm not afraid, because I've been personally and eternally blessed. Because of what Jesus has done, God looks on me with mercy. It's my only appeal, it's the source of my hope, it's my life. Mercy, mercy me!
posted by Paul Tripp Ministries
Mercy Me: Psalm 51 and Everyday Life.
It was one of those moments you want to take back. It was one of those times when you go where your desires and emotions are leading you. It was one of those situations when you know you should stop or walk away but feel you can't. And it was one of those moments when afterward you are confronted with the sin that still lives inside of you. Yes, it was one of those moments.It wasn't a big deal in one way. Just a small conversation that had turned a bit ugly. It wasn't a dramatic life-altering moment. It was in the privacy of my home with one of my family members. But maybe that's the point. Perhaps it's very important because that's where I live everyday. You see, you and I don't live in a series of big, dramatic moments. We don't careen from big decision to big decision. We all live in an endless series of little moments. The character of a life isn't set in ten big moments. The character of a life is set in 10,000 little moments of everyday life. It's the themes of struggles that emerge from those little moments that reveal what's really going on in our hearts.So, I knew I couldn't back away from this little moment. I knew I had to own my sin. The minute I thought this, an inner struggle began. "I wasn't the only one at fault. If he hadn't said what he said, I wouldn't have become angry. I was actually pretty patient for much of the conversation." These were some of the arguments I was giving myself.Isn't this interesting. Rather than appealing to the mercy of the Lord in the face of my sin, what I actually do instead is function as my own defense lawyer and present a list of arguments for my own righteousness. The theology behind the defense is that my greatest problem is outside of me, not inside of me. In so arguing, I'm telling myself that I don't really need to be rescued by the Lord's mercy. No, I'm telling myself that what I need to be rescued from is that sinner in the room who caused me to respond as I did.Here's the point. Before you can ever make a clean and unamended confession of your sin, you have to first begin by confessing your righteousness. It's not just your sin that separates you from God, your righteousness does as well. Because, when you are convinced you are righteous, you don't seek the forgiving, rescuing, and restoring mercy that can only be found in Jesus Christ.What's actually true is that when I come to the Lord after I've blown it, I've only one argument to make. It's not the argument of the difficulty of the environment that I am in. It's not the argument of the difficult people that I'm near. It's not the argument of good intentions that were thwarted in some way. No, I only have one argument. It's right there in the first verse of Psalm 51, as David confesses his sin with Bathsheba. I come to the Lord with only one appeal; his mercy. I've no other defense. I've no other standing. I've no other hope. I can't escape the reality of my biggest problem; me! So I appeal to the one thing in my life that's sure and will never fail. I appeal to the one thing that guaranteed not only my acceptance with God, but the hope of new beginnings and fresh starts. I appeal on the basis of the greatest gift I ever have or ever will be given. I leave the courtroom of my own defense, I come out of hiding and I admit who I am. But I'm not afraid, because I've been personally and eternally blessed. Because of what Jesus has done, God looks on me with mercy. It's my only appeal, it's the source of my hope, it's my life. Mercy, mercy me!
posted by Paul Tripp Ministries
Thursday, March 22, 2007
Home, Sweet Home
We had a great time at the retreat! The teachings were outstanding and the worship, ministry times, fellowship and food were wonderful!! We learned and experienced the grace of God for the paths He’s placed us on. What a joy to walk together with one another, praying for and caring for each other.
On the way home, one of our dear sisters received terrible news that her aunt had suddenly and tragically died. We all grieved together, prayed together and sought to bring the comfort of God to our dear friend. It was truly a beautiful picture of the body of Christ at work and I know none of us will ever forget this ride home.
One of the wonders of the church is the gift of fellowship and enduring friendship that only God can give. We're truly family!
I’m so thankful that we’re not called to walk the road alone, but God gives such grace through his people. Thank you, Lord!
On the way home, one of our dear sisters received terrible news that her aunt had suddenly and tragically died. We all grieved together, prayed together and sought to bring the comfort of God to our dear friend. It was truly a beautiful picture of the body of Christ at work and I know none of us will ever forget this ride home.
One of the wonders of the church is the gift of fellowship and enduring friendship that only God can give. We're truly family!
I’m so thankful that we’re not called to walk the road alone, but God gives such grace through his people. Thank you, Lord!
Friday, March 09, 2007
Ladies' Retreat!!
I'm so excited to go to the Chesapeake Ladies' Retreat next week with eight other ladies from our church!! It will be a first-time experience of this special retreat for each of them, except Karin and me. We're so blessed to be invited and I know that the ladies are in for a huge treat. Every time I've gone with my dear old home church to this retreat I've met the Lord is life-changing ways and have been prepared for the next chapter in my life. I especially remember the year, let's see, it must've been 1996 or 97 , when I was wrestling with God and the decision whether to home school Daniel for fourth grade. I was really afraid of this decision and the Lord graciously gave me much faith and peace for it.
Another great memory is bringing my neighbor Michelle to the retreat and watching her encounter God in worship for the first time! That was powerful!!
What a tremendous privilege I have to introduce the ladies from King of Grace to sisters at Chesapeake. It's like a family reunion to me!!!
Please pray for us as we travel down in the big rossmobile! The road trip should be a blast!!
Most importantly, that we'd all meet the Lord in life-changing and refreshing ways.
Thanks!
Another great memory is bringing my neighbor Michelle to the retreat and watching her encounter God in worship for the first time! That was powerful!!
What a tremendous privilege I have to introduce the ladies from King of Grace to sisters at Chesapeake. It's like a family reunion to me!!!
Please pray for us as we travel down in the big rossmobile! The road trip should be a blast!!
Most importantly, that we'd all meet the Lord in life-changing and refreshing ways.
Thanks!
Monday, March 05, 2007
Romans 8; Hallelujah!
We've been memorizing Romans 8 as a family and it is so life-giving and sweet to my soul! Here are some of the gems:
1-2 There is therefore now NO condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life has set you free in Christ Jesus from the law of sin an death.
5-9 For those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit.
To set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace. For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God's law; indeed, it cannot. Those who are in the flesh cannot please God.
You, however, are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if in fact the Spirit of Christ dwells in you. Anyone who does not have the Spirit of Christ does not belong to him.
11-15 If the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, he who raised Jesus will also give life to your mortal bodies through his Spirit who dwells in you.
So then, brothers, we are debtors, not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh. For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live. For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, "Abba, Father!"
'Grace, Like Rain' is a beautiful song we sang at church yesterday and it's playing in my soul today. This version sounds a bit like Bruce Springsteen, but the classic message still comes through ~
Grace, Like Rain
1-2 There is therefore now NO condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life has set you free in Christ Jesus from the law of sin an death.
5-9 For those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit.
To set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace. For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God's law; indeed, it cannot. Those who are in the flesh cannot please God.
You, however, are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if in fact the Spirit of Christ dwells in you. Anyone who does not have the Spirit of Christ does not belong to him.
11-15 If the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, he who raised Jesus will also give life to your mortal bodies through his Spirit who dwells in you.
So then, brothers, we are debtors, not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh. For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live. For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, "Abba, Father!"
'Grace, Like Rain' is a beautiful song we sang at church yesterday and it's playing in my soul today. This version sounds a bit like Bruce Springsteen, but the classic message still comes through ~
Grace, Like Rain
Saturday, March 03, 2007
Unworthy Servant
Luke 17:7-10
“Will any of you who has a servant plowing or keeping sheep say to him when he has come in from the fields, ‘Come at once and recline at table’? Will he not rather say to him, ‘Prepare supper for me, and dress properly, and serve me while I eat and drink, and afterward you will eat and drink? Does he thank the servant because he did what was commanded? So you also, when you have done all that you were commanded, say, ‘We are unworthy servants; we have only done what was our duty.’ ”
I love to recline after serving the Lord and often feel this is my due. How lacking I am of this servant’s mindset that Jesus portrays. In fact, lately I’ve been complaining in my heart about the many nights of meetings we have scheduled.
Father, forgive me for complaining about the work you’ve called us to. Thank you for the privilege of serving You in the work of plowing fields and tending sheep. Please make me a humble servant who recognizes the privilege it is to serve You!
“Will any of you who has a servant plowing or keeping sheep say to him when he has come in from the fields, ‘Come at once and recline at table’? Will he not rather say to him, ‘Prepare supper for me, and dress properly, and serve me while I eat and drink, and afterward you will eat and drink? Does he thank the servant because he did what was commanded? So you also, when you have done all that you were commanded, say, ‘We are unworthy servants; we have only done what was our duty.’ ”
I love to recline after serving the Lord and often feel this is my due. How lacking I am of this servant’s mindset that Jesus portrays. In fact, lately I’ve been complaining in my heart about the many nights of meetings we have scheduled.
Father, forgive me for complaining about the work you’ve called us to. Thank you for the privilege of serving You in the work of plowing fields and tending sheep. Please make me a humble servant who recognizes the privilege it is to serve You!
Wednesday, February 28, 2007
Truly Amazing Grace
Paul & I went to see the movie Amazing Grace and were very blessed! We can highly recommend this movie. It's about William Wilberforce, a godly man who abolished the slave trade in England. His life is truly provoking and inspiring. He loved the Lord passionately and served Him wholeheartedly, giving his life to the calling the Lord had for him. He struggled with serious health issues and endured intense political opposition. His wife was a match for him in every way, providing the encouragement and support he needed to heed the call of God on his life. What a great example for us!
John Piper has an audiobiography online that's great, and I hear there's a couple biographies which we will seek to read. Also, Focus on the Family has done a dramatization of his life (their series are always excellent).
Go see the movie!! It's wonderful!!
Paul & I thought the actor for William looked like Bob Kauflin! :)
John Piper has an audiobiography online that's great, and I hear there's a couple biographies which we will seek to read. Also, Focus on the Family has done a dramatization of his life (their series are always excellent).
Go see the movie!! It's wonderful!!
Paul & I thought the actor for William looked like Bob Kauflin! :)
Monday, February 19, 2007
Come and Eat!
My honey made (well heated up my) homemade chicken soup and DID make a delicious spinach garlic tomato saute thingy for dinner. I was sitting here with the laptop and said I had no appetite. He beckoned me to eat anyway. I obeyed submissively and as soon as we gave thanks I inhaled the delicious dinner. My dormant taste buds started to live again!
My coherent meditation on this is that even when we don't feel like eating. we must for our health. Even more importantly, even when we don't feel like reading the Word, we must for our spiritual health! Sometimes it may feel like taking vitamins and sometimes it may be a gourmet experience, but either way we need the Bread of Life!
My coherent meditation on this is that even when we don't feel like eating. we must for our health. Even more importantly, even when we don't feel like reading the Word, we must for our spiritual health! Sometimes it may feel like taking vitamins and sometimes it may be a gourmet experience, but either way we need the Bread of Life!
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